I should go get the memory card out of my camera & upload pictures.
I should should should . . . .
We are dealing. I will survive.
I choose to look at this *situation* like we've been given a whole potato truck full of lemons and I'm busy each day making a whole lotta lemonade.
There is one predictable part of all this; the kids have a pattern they follow when our household is in upheaval, depending on who did the leaving. If it's me taking the kids away & in a new situation, there is a honeymoon period. That was last week. The next time I call, "Testing the Boundaries" (which is this week). Each child tries new forms of, how do I put this nicely, acting out. This mischief usually presents in tantrums unique to each child.
We were in desperate need of a measuring stick for gauging how good they could be. Or how deep they had dug their own holes.
Meet the Twizlberry incentive. Oh, Twizleberry is this amazing frozen yogurt place where you "pump" your own yogurt (flavors like peach, cheesecake, raspberry, etc) and then choose from a bar that has, like, 50 different toppings. Then you put the cup on a scale at the register & pay by the ounce. (I do have to supervise the kids closely; we go one at a time) But no kid had a sundae more costly than $1.75.
I remember this one seminary teacher that did a similar "thing". You could earn a 'Sundae on Friday' if you met certain criteria; were on time, participated, did your work, etc. But, here's the crafty part, you earned things progressively. First, if you 'fulfilled' the day's criteria, you earned toppings. Then you earn the ice cream. Next is the spoon. Last is the cup. So if you didn't carry through for the rest of the week, you'd be left eating ice cream in your hands. There were some smart alecks that put everything in their hand and ate, but it's not as enjoyable. This teacher did it every two weeks. She also did it with waffles/pancakes.
I made these last night, I'll make the toppings next. And I used my handy dandy laminater that I brought in my carry-on. Yes, I love laminating. A lot. I just draw whatever I want, then zip it through the magic machine. I even cut a slit in the cup so they can slip their fro-yo & spoon in their Twizleberry cup. Fingers crossed, they like this incentive plan.